May 14
Please help me. About nikkah.
Asslamualikum. I like someone and she likes me as well. She converted to Islam few month ago, Alhumdulilah. We both are very serious for each others and really want to get married as soon as possible. She lives with her mother(Atheist) and her step father(muslim) . Her parents are not accepting her to marry me because they told that i am out of their culture. They didn't say anything about me or my personality. But they raised concerns about me belonging to a specific country. And we both really really want to marry each other. I have some questions here. Can she marry me without her parents acceptance? I heard from some people that as her real father is not Muslim and no one from her blood relation is Muslim so no one can be her wali from her family. About her step father, as he is not blood related father so he can't be wali automatically. Is this statement true ? What Islam suggests us in such conditions?
We both really want to marry each other. We want to have our nikkah as soon as possible. But She tells me that it's better for her if she doesn't tell about her nikkah to her parents for a period of time because she is afraid that her parents will not support her and maybe force her to leave the house and she is right now in the middle of her college. Right now, she is in my city for few months to do her internship. She is telling me that we can have a nikkah now but the problem for her is that she is very afraid to her to her parents about that because after finishing her internship she has to go back to her home to finish the college. It will take her around 6 months to finish.
What Islam suggest us in such conditions? Is it possible to have nikkah if she hides her nikkah for the certain period of time and then she opens up to her parents ? About my side, everyone knows about her. My family, my friends. Please advise me.
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