Aug 12
My brother needs your help in guidance
Salamaat ya sheikh, I am from India. My brother follows you a lot Masha Allah. He has good awareness of deen and duniya.he loves telling me things,and arguing with me on my fiqhi beliefs. And it's our favourite thing to do. We both mostly disagree, but we respect each other and sometimes I accept what he said, sometimes he does too. For some days I noticed he has been repeating this phrase a lot when it comes to topics related gender. He says every woman is wrong, is a sinner except me (as his sister) and our mother. When i say it's wrong to say that. he tells me why doesn't any woman do hijab properly? And he says further, if they are corrected they reply back in arrogance. And I say it's their and their god's problem. you should focus on your sins,and your wrong doing. And I think he needs a lesson here.he has been getting slightly arrogant in his ibadah that I wish he understands soon.whenever he's watching an Islamic bayan,he watches for someone else,not for his improvement at all. I have 2 requests to make from you sheikh,my brother is very innocent. He doesn't understand quickly when things condradict with what he thinks is right. Unless someone as respected as you can make him think what's right and what's wrong.1st request :- answer this question for him ya sheikh: is it right to think that every woman on earth is a sinner/ harami/ wrong because she doesn't pray, doesn't cover herself/ doesn't obey Allah or the beloved prophet pbuh( and the answer is yes maybe) but are we allowed to hate them for what they do?or can't we respect people like these too?2nd request ayyuhash sheikh:- how can a person come out of arrogance, even if it's so less,but the problem is the person doesn't know, or doesn't accept?Lastly, I pray for you,and I pray for my brother too.I ask allah to accept all your efforts and grant you jannah and my brother tooAs-salamu 'Alaykum Wa RahmatUllahi Wa Barakatuhu
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