Shaykh Rasoul Q & AS
Shaykh Rasoul Q & A
2h ago

Marriage validation

So I was around the age of 18 and my parents took me to Pakistan one day and sat down and I was so confused. They told me something about marrying my cousin and believe me I think that is disgusting. I don’t ever wanna do that. I mean, I respect people that do but it’s just not me so they took me to Pakistan and they sat down and asked. I think they asked me if I wanna marry him at that time. I’ll be honest I didn’t think right no one talk to me like what’s right and what’s wrong and what will happen if I do or not so I just looked at my parents and I was scared that they might hurt me if I said no or I was scared they might get mad so I just said OK. Next thing you know they arranged a big party we were exchanging rings and stuff. I don’t know if it was in the nikkah or engagement so we exchange rings and this whole party and then a week later or day later my dad just gave me this paper saying oh just sign this that’s all I remember and now I just want out of this marriage, but I know if I talk to my parents right now they will hurt me or hurt themselves. What should I do to help please? I don’t want this marriage anymore. I don’t want to marry him I have someone else I really love and want to marry I’m 20 now and I wanna marry the guy I really love but I can’t tell my parents they will hurt me or themselfs so what do I do sheikh.
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