Shaykh Rasoul Q & AS
Shaykh Rasoul Q & A
Aug 19

FROM INDONESIAN

Assalamu’alaikum Sheikh, Barakallahu fiik.​I’m a 2nd-year high school student from Indonesia. Alhamdulillāh, since my days at an Islamic junior high, I’ve tried my best to stay consistent with my 5 daily prayers, reading the Qur'an for 30 minutes every day, and occasionally praying Tahajjud.​During high school, I met a female classmate who is Christian. We’ve been close friends for over a year now. Honestly, we just click so well. She is kind, friendly, and one of the top achievers in our school. We often study together, join competitions as a team, and constantly support each other's academic goals.​Here is where I'm feeling torn, Sheikh. Deep down, I'm pretty sure she has had feelings for me for a while, and honestly, I really want to keep her in my life.​I’m confused about what step I should take next from an Islamic perspective:​Should I actively try to guide her toward Islam (hoping she becomes a revert) so we can be together the halal way?​Or should I just practice sabr (patience), step back, and trust whatever outcome Allah SWT has already written for me?​I really hope to get some guidance or certainty on this. Jazakallahu khairan for your time and wisdom, Sheikh. 🙏🙏
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