Jun 8
Advice(s) for controlling my anger
Assalamualikum. Recently, me and my dad have been getting into arguments like a LOT. It’s almost an everyday thing at this point. Main probpem? Well, my dad is a really nice guy and loves me too but he uses foul words to communicate with me. Words that are extremely discouraged in Islam and really brings my self-esteem down. As he uses those kind of words, I get angry and snap at him too. I always tried seeking refuge from the whispers of Shaytan but I still never stop myself completely because of my rage. Every time this happens, I always feel guilty and ashamed to even face Allah. I know Allah is the Most Forgiving and Most Merciful, but growing up, I always got to hear that if you disrespect your parents, Allah won’t love you anymore. And I feel guilty just for Allah, because I love him more than I love my dad, obviously. I just want to control my anger during those moments.
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