Jun 25
A serious question
I am a 20 years old Muslim girl. I deeply love Allah and even when I think of Allah I want to cry because of how great he is and how kind is he is. But recently I have been so depressed. I, as how people say, am a beautiful girl. I actually got raped once, and get sexually abused by my uncle. The way men treat me in my life and other girl's life. Men have been the worst in our lives, in modern days men's behavior is quite scary. And the fact that Allah says we should obey THESE MEN, us going to heaven or he'll depends on their satisfaction, and the fact that girls have been created to suffer more specifically physically, these things make me depressed and ask myself maybe Allah hated us in the first place ? And if he does, I am going to myself because i love who Allah loves and I hate who Allah hates. But I still love Allah even if he hates me.
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WaAlaikum Assalam, Allah SWT knows our struggles don't worry. Allah doesn't hate like that. Just because something bad happened doesn't mean that He SWT hates us. He is the most merciful so we should ask him for ease. If someone truly loves Allah and He loves him back then they will face struggles because Allah wants you to always come returning to Him. Ever heard of: if you come to me walking I will come to you running? Hope this explained or Sheikhrasul might give an better explanation